I know what you’re all thinking. “What the hell, guys?” It’s been like 3 months since we’ve had a legitimate update and I have no excuse other than to say life got in the way. Gracie and myself have both had some very crazy changes/events in our lives and things just started to calm down in the last few weeks. To the 20 of you who have been continually reading since our hiatus(or one person who comes back 20 times a day) I can’t begin to express how grateful I am for the loyalty, even if we were not as faithful to you in our blogging duties. </shameful apology>
We promise no weekly blogs, but we’re going to do our best to get on here at least a few times a month to update you all(or y’all as my dear, Southern Gracie would say) on the non-vanilla events in our lives. I haven’t told Gracie I’m updating the blog yet, but I’ll make her put in her fair share of entries, too. She’s still wrapped around my finger. 
As promised a long time ago, I will now fill you guys in on the events of Friday, October 5th.
I had to go to class in the early afternoon. Which sucked. So Grace drove me back down to my school and then independently embarked on a journey to get a nap (have I mentioned Grace is 70?) This was fine, naps are cool. Except she forgot about me. Kind of. She slept through her alarm. I can’t quite remember, but I’m pretty sure I beat it into the ground and reminded her about her lack of punctuality a few times throughout the course of the day 
. So once she awoke from her coma and picked me up, we went to an under 35 munch! Which was a lot of fun! We were definitely minorities, identifying as primarily spankos/top and bottom as opposed to dom(domme) and sub, but we had a blast and everyone there was super welcoming and interesting.
At the munch we met a couple of switches who are not in a domestic discipline relationship, but practice D/s and switch who gets to be the Dom(Domme) every month, which I thought was just the cutest thing. As did Gracie. Gracie and I play around with switching, but 99% of the time she’s still very much in charge. Though I do enjoy it when she allows me to take control for a little while. I think it’s a pretty interesting concept to be a couple who has a complete 50/50 switch dynamic, though I am not sure how that would work for Grace and myself. There is a very visible difference in our good decision-making abilities, most likely due to our age difference. Realistically speaking, you just make riskier mistakes when you’re 18 as opposed to 25 due to lack of life experience. So while Gracie gets onto me about putting myself in dangerous situations, most usually if I am scolding her, it’s about punctuality or misplacing her wallet.
Friday I was feeling very bratty and I believe I kept pinching her on the drive home from the munch, until she realized she had misplaced some important items at the munch. She was able to locate them, but the situation stressed her out indefinitely. And I was feeling no less bratty, which was unfortunate. I kept pushing her further and further at the hotel. She wanted to watch a movie and snuggle(usually a favorite of mine) and I didn’t feel like cooperating with anything she suggested to me. Eventually my stubbornness and resistance resulted in Grace taking down my PJ pants and using a large paddle to drive home the point that she was in no mood to deal with my bad attitude that night. Instead of apologizing or giving in, however, I decided to keep pushing and I refused to say “yes ma’am” or respond in any desirable manner to her scolding. So I wound up receiving a pretty hard paddling and a lot more bruising than I received even from my serious spanking the night before.
The next two days are a bit of a blur to me, but I do vividly remember another spanking. We decided to go up to Lake Ontario despite the cold weather. I, once again, was feeling bratty and a bit uncooperative. (I don’t know how that woman puts up with me sometimes) We had a really lovely time for the most part, though. She found a bunch of concrete that led out about 50 feet into the lake and went out the the edge, I was concerned about the sturdiness of the makeshift bridge(Grace is definitely the adventurer between the two of us) but I was eventually coerced into going out to the edge with her. It was really gorgeous, I had never been to a Great Lake before and I definitely would like to go back come Summer.
Before we departed back home for the day, Grace decided to deal with my earlier misbehavior and took me into the woods by the shore. She spanked me over her lap on a picnic bench near a few trees that provided semi-privacy, but I’m pretty sure that the joggers running by could put two and two together from the sounds. She picked a switch when I remained uncooperative and when I still wasn’t feeling remorseful, she grabbed what I could only describe as a tree-trunk, it was the biggest switch I’ve ever seen, and she spanked me long after I begged her to stop with it. I could feel the heat radiating through my jeans when I stood up and it was probably the most uncomfortable I have ever been after a spanking. Easily the worst implement I’ve ever come into contact with. I was a subby mess after that, however, and wouldn’t leave her side for the rest of the day. I held onto her hand tight and was pretty well-behaved on the ride home.
So, more things have happened in our little world recently and we’re going to be having another visit in the near future, we will keep you updated! 
Thank you for continuing to read our entries after all the neglect! We promise to try to be better to our readers in 2011.
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